Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Three Days to Go!!

Wednesday - February 11, 2009

Last posting had us with six days before Valentine's Day - now we're down to three! I'm not promoting the commercialization of this particular day, but it seems to be the only day some people feel free to say I love you with words, gifts, or a deed of kindness! What I would like for us to think about is there something you could do or say that would make one person, or a group of people feel the love you have for them??? Most of the younger generation will probably go out on a "date" to a nice restaurant and/or a movie! That's nice, but I'm afraid a little too crowded for us!!

I will be at Mom's Valentine's Day, so I will be trying to make Mom's day special - Hmmm what will she want to do????? I know - go out to eat at Applebees, look around at AC Moore's and/or Michael's, get her hair done for church on Sunday, and watch the Gaither's Saturday night. This is her routine for Saturday's and we shall not rock the boat - just add some sugar free candy and maybe a Teddy Bear and she will be happy and loved!!!

Bill and I will "celebrate" Valentine's Day either on the thirteenth or later! A nice cooked meal at home!! :):) - or a visit to our favorite place - Chilli-Willis! mmmmm - I'm all for that:):) We haven't been there in a while! We've never been ones to buy a lot - a card, a picture, and I have received flowers.

There is one card that is very special to me that he sent me. I received this card the year Dad had had open-heart surgery. Things did not go as planned and he was in ICU for 32 days. He had surgery on February 8th and was placed in ICU on Feb11th. Some may ask how I remember those dates, I remember this not only because of the severity of Dad's condition, but the fact that Bill had done something special for me for Valentine's Day. We had already planned for me to be with Mom and Dad for a couple of weeks while he recuperated (Doctors told us he would be up and walking and ready to go home in 8 - 10 days, unless complications set in!) Complications did set in and I was with Mom and Dad for two months!

Dad was at a very low and crucial point in his recovery. We were holding on to very slim hopes of him pulling out of this very serious state his was in. Before Dad's surgery, Bill had bought me a Valentine card; mailed it to a place in Paris, France; and they mailed it back to me with the postage of Paris, France - the city for those in love! He had to send the money for them to mail the card addressed to me by Bill so that I would receive it on February 14th. It was delivered on that date - but I wasn't at home to get it out of the mailbox! Bill brought it into me at the hospital. It was the sweetest gesture he could ever have done. He chose the card himself and wanted to add that little extra "romantic touch" to the card! It is a card I will always cherish - and yes Bill, I know exactly where that card is!!!!

There are so many little things we can do that will tell that special person just how much we love them and appreciate all they do. Many people think that the woman is the one this day is centered around, but it is for everyone - girlfriend/boyfriend; husband/wife; parents/child(ren); nieces/nephews/-in-laws and on and on. Something simple, something nice as in doing the dishes, cooking a dinner, making a dessert, watching a movie at home, or sending a card from the other side of the world are all sweet gestures that say "I love you!"

You've got three days to think and act!!! Good luck!

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Six Days Until . . . .

Sunday - February 8, 2009

Just a short reminder to all who read the blog that you have less than a week to prepare something special for your wife, husband, parents, children, friends, neighbors, and maybe even yourself before February 14 gets here. The candy, flowers, jewelry, cars, vacations, and anything you might wish to give that special person in your life is a token many people give to show how much they love that person. With today's economy, most of us will not go overboard and try and buy something expensive to prove to that special person they are loved!

I can remember Mom saying many times that she didn't care what Dad would buy her - even if it was just a "hanky" - she would love it because HE picked it out. I think most of us already know that the love of our life truly loves us and doesn't have to prove that love by buying expensive gifts!

Growing up we loved getting those packages of cards for forty-nine cents and give to our friends and teachers at school. I always hated giving the boys one - I was afraid they would think I liked them - UGH!!!!! Our teachers always had us make Valentine folders, and then they were stapled on the bulletin board so all the students could place the cards in them. We would then have a party, open up our cards, and either be glad or sad that the special person in the classroom remembered you!!! I can remember the crying of some of the girls because that "guy" didn't give her a card, and then there were those who would brag about how many special cards they received. That made an impression on me that carried over to my days of teaching. Never do anything that would cause pain or bragging rights for the kids. I wanted them all to feel special and loved!!! It was easier done in elementary school than on the middle school level.

After moving from the school I had taught at for eighteen years, I was placed at a different middle school. Students that went to this school came from many walks of life. Some had parents who had great jobs and were able to give them anything they desired. There were also many students who came from homes that were financially making it from payday to payday. I'm not sure when it started, but students started receiving presents (flowers, balloons, stuffed animals, etc) at school for Valentine's Day. Many of these were boyfriend/girlfriend's sending them to the person they liked - which was cute and sweet when it was a stuffed bear or a box of candy. Somewhere after this "tradition" started, the gifts being sent started being bigger and more expensive! I saw many tears on that day, and I saw a lot of gloating! It was so sad. I don't begrudge those who received the gifts - I just wish all the kids could have felt the same joy as some of the others did.

Many of the flowers/gifts sent were from parents so that their child would not be hurt and part of the group who received nothing. I hope all of those kids still receive gifts of love and those who didn't then - do now! I remember on child who receive three dozen roses. Yes, three dozen yellow roses for a twelve year old! Oh my - now that was more than any of the teachers' received!

We don't have to go out and buy expensive gifts - maybe a homemade card, a rose bud, a "hanky," a box of candy, or a simple "I love You" would be enough for most of us! So for all those who procrastinate, don't have the money or the time, you have six days to come up with a special "thing" for those you love!

None of the presents we receive or give will ever surpass our Father's gift - the giving of His own Son to die on the cross for us! How many of us tell our Heavenly Father that we love Him? I know we all pray and many of us do tell Him we love Him, but many times we are asking Him for help and guidance. Take a minute and just tell Him you love Him!!!

Friday, February 6, 2009

Snow Cream Anyone???????

Friday – February 6, 2009

Snow Cream anyone?? The last few weeks have been a winter wonderland. The opportunities for kids of all ages to make a snowman; make angels in the snow; have a fantastic snowball fight with unsuspecting family members and friends; go sleigh riding down the steep hills; and last but not least, enjoying good old fashion “Snow Cream” can be the high light for a winter lover’s dream!

I decided to google to get a little history about making snow cream. I can remember my grandmother, my parents, and their generations talking about making snow cream and eating icicles once old man winter had hit their area with snow and freezing temperatures! According to Wikipedia, snow cream was being made as far back as the 15th - 16th centuries. From looking at a number of the recipes, they all included the basic ingredients of milk, sugar, vanilla flavoring, and snow. Some recipes used condensed milk to make a richer tasting treat; others included using egg whites and flour; and some talked about adding chocolate “quik mix,” raisins, cinnamon, bananas which are really ripe, and any other flavoring that you might enjoy – be creative and enjoy! Whatever might be your personal likes in flavor could allow you to be even more creative!

When gathering the snow, make sure it is CLEAN snow. Make sure no animals have been around the area where you gather the snow. It has been suggested the safest snow is the snow that is in the middle of the snow fall. Don’t get the snow off cars or too close to the ground; wipe the top layer of the snow off because it will contain dirt particles and other things that might fly through the air and settle on the snow. Sure, we didn’t think of those things when going out and gathering snow so Mammaw or Mom could make the snow cream, but times have changed and apparently our environment isn’t as safe as it use to be!

When checking the different sites out for recipes, I found some that were really simple, and also gave exact amounts even for the snow. Hope you get to make some snow cream before the snow is all gone!!!!

Sites with recipes for snow cream!

A warning about where not to get the snow! The following pictures were taken in our yard – we definitely will NOT be using the snow in these areas!!!

The tracks are from our four legged friends!
Looks like they were trying to find cover from the snowNow I wonder what Toby is doing????

Tracks out back - were they looking for food?

Tracks made by my "two legged" friend! :):):)


The snow on the cars still has too much dirt - so the experts say!!!


This snow is definitely out of the question as a choice to use!! It's yellow!!!!


Hmmmm - I wonder why???

When making snow cream, make sure your snow is CLEAN!!! Enjoy!

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Winter's Beauty

Wednesday - February 4, 2009

This posting is going to be more pictures and less words! This winter has let us witness first hand some of God's beauty using snow as the common denominator. The following pictures were taken during the last week! Hope you enjoy!

The first two pictures caught my eye because of the shadows created by the trees on the snow. Such beauty, but oh so cold!


The snow resting quietly on the tree limbs!


The sun just starting to rise above the tree tops this morning after the heavy snow fall last night!


This may be my favorite shot!

Pretty to look at as in a picture - but not so good to travel in!!!!

One of our pine trees in the back yard heavy laden with snow!
This is the neighbor's holly tree!

We are expecting rain toward the end of the week - mixed with all this snow that will be melting - ohhh my - high water is in our forecast!

Monday, February 2, 2009

Times Have Changed

Monday – February 2, 2009

Times just keep on changing! I remember hearing the stories of my parents and how they would WALK to school with snow past their knees – school was never canceled! Many of those walks took them through the woods which happened to be a faster route to another “main” road that happened to be dirt! My parents’ generation NEVER got out of school because of snow! At least that what we always heard!


Did we get out for this snow fall!


Next came our generation – one in which I don’t remember getting out of school due to the weather. I do remember thinking how unfair it was that Wayne County got out of school while Cabell County was going to be in session. This did not happen often, but when it did, I never could figure out why them and not us!! Once I started teaching I knew why! While growing up we only lived about a mile from the county line, and we had to go to school and Westmoreland and Vinson didn’t. Of course this was because most of Cabell County students could walk to their schools and were not relying on the county bus system! Even though the Westmoreland students could walk to school, they still had more buses running than Cabell did!

We lived about a mile from our junior high school – and it was on the coldest days of the year that we had to walk to school due to cars of our parents not starting – whew! This was also during the time when as a girl I was not allowed to wear pants at school!!! SO, Mom made me wear pants under my skirt, and then I had to go to the restroom to take them off until the trip home! This was so embarrassing, but it did help keep me warm!



A beautiful scene looking up the road, but not one to have to drive on!!!!



I’m sure even back then that many counties that relied heavily on the bus system to transport the kids to and from school had more days out of school than we did. It wasn’t until I started teaching at East Lynn Elementary that I really comprehended that not all kids lived where they could walk to school!! East Lynn had only a few that could actually walk to school – those who lived across the road from the school!! Now, I really did understand why Wayne County was out of school and Cabell wasn’t!

Some of our friends who are still teaching were out all last week due to the snow, ice, and power outages. This had Bill and I both reflecting back to the times when we were still teaching and we DID NOT get out a full week of school. We don’t begrudge the schools getting out last week – just noting how “times have changed.” We thought we would jot down some of the things we remember about these bad weather days when we were teachers!


Toby even has had trouble getting through the snow!



Our Tidbits of Bad Weather Days 1973 – 2006

1. Many days we had to report to school with bad weather – just like the days we had last week – even though the buses did not run. We would have some kids – most were kids whose parents were going somewhere and would drop their child off at school. Sometimes I wonder if on the elementary level if we weren’t “babysitting” while the parents went out and about! We never had a full class, and we could do only so much with the few that came. We would allow them to play more than when the full class was there. We had a parent call about one of the sixth grade teachers not teaching on those days. He had one student – who happened to be his cousin. The next time we had a day when the buses didn’t run, and knowing from experience, we knew which kids would be there – this teacher wore a three piece suit; gave a spelling test; worked from the math and reading books; gave science and social studies’ quiz; and all make-up work to that ONE student. That child didn’t come back when he knew there would only be a few students at school! Mom wanted him taught – so he was taught! Parents did not understand how hard it would be to go on with lessons when the majority of the class was not there!

One of our "treacherous" big snows


2. There were many, many days when both of us would already be on the way to school – or for that matter at school – when the word from the Board’s office would be sent out that schools was being dismissed! We would slip and slide all the way!!! One episode that comes to mind is the day we already had about six inches on the ground, and it was still snowing – school was not called off until 10:00 when all students and personnel were at school. The call came that all buses would be coming back – to take the kids home with the road conditions being in worse condition than the trip to school! Our principal allowed those of us who lived in Huntington to leave early (we were suppose to wait until all kids were sent home)! It took us almost ten hours to get home. On every small incline between East Lynn and Wayne, we had to literally push Bill’s big car up the little “hills!” The reason for this – his tires were bald!!!!! If memory serves me correctly – he got new tires soon after that episode. Some of our colleagues in the carpool wore heels that day – not at all suitable for a day like that! These ladies had to get out and help push the car – now talk about worn out and looking like drowned rats – this was a sight that is still as vivid as if it were yesterday!


One of our past big snows!


3. As I said earlier, there were many days we would make our trek to school only to be told to go back home. Another one of those days which stand out is a day that remains as an “I can’t believe that happened” day! These were the days when we had about five teachers in the carpool with pickup points from Huntington to Lavalette. One of the teachers thought she had missed us and proceeded to head towards the last pick-up place. She was always late, and we had been known to leave her!!!! Lucky me – it was my week to drive! I had a Ford Futura that was two doors with bucket seats! Going up one of the treacherous hills between Huntington and East Lynn was nerve wracking. I had learned how to drive in these conditions – steady low speed – don’t use the brake – steer toward the way you are sliding. I was always fine if I didn’t have to stop!!!! Whoa – trying to get the traction back was impossible some days. On this particular day, I was at a steady speed making my way up the hill when we noticed this teacher waving from the side of the road. She wanted me to STOP and pick her up!!! I’m going – “I can’t stop – I’ll never get going again on this icy/snowy road!” She yells for Bill to open the door, lean up, and she will jump in the car!!! Guess what – he did and she did! Oh, I shudder when I think about what could have happened! I do NOT recommend this method of getting a ride to anyone!!!
My Ford Futura!


These are three of some of our most memorable episodes when dealing with the snow during our teaching days! We were all dedicated to the fact that we HAD to get to school no matter what!!! (Or we didn’t get paid!) I like the approach the school system seems to be taking now. School systems are taking more precautions today – or so it seems. We were wondering why – it wasn’t because our lives were less thought of, but the fact that there weren’t as many drivers on the road as there are now; kids could walk to school; and the distance we had to travel may not have been as far since consolidation of schools began. Another contributing factor might be that school funding also depends on attendance!! If there are not at least 93% of the kids in school – the system will not get their government funding!!! Regardless of their reasoning – it is far more important to make a decision that will help keep all safe!!

The following pictures are of snow from last week! Nice to look at, but horrible to drive through!!!




Small amount of snow - but a solid sheet of ice underneath the snow - yikes - too slippery to drive on!