Sunday, December 7, 2008

Our Fathers - American Heroes

Sunday - December 7, 2008

67 years ago today Pearl Harbor was attacked by the Japanese under the command of Admiral Nagumo. This event caused many of our loved ones to embark upon an adventure that would affect them for the rest of their life. This was the beginning for the United States to have an active part in WWII. Most of us had fathers, mothers, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends who were some how a part of WWII, and we have heard some of their stories. Most of those who were in the service or connected closely to what our country and the world was going through know enough facts to realize how hard it was for our family and friends. Many of the WWII veterans did not talk about what they saw or did.

Both of our fathers - Clyde A. Hardin and Elmer J. Layne - were in the army during WWII. Both were injured and carried with them memories and scars from the war their entire life.

Clyde was a Tech Sergeant in the 10th Armored Division serving in France and Germany from 1944 – 1945. This division served under General George S. Patton’s Third Army and was activated from Fort Benning, GA. Clyde was part of the “Battle of the Bulge” and was surrounded at Bastogne during Christmas 1944. If you’ve ever watched the movie with George C Scott playing General Patton, then you will get an idea as to what Clyde and his unit went through. Clyde came out of the service with wounds to his legs and side. Clyde’s division nickname was “Tiger” with the “Battle of the Bulge” being one of its main battle engagements during WWII.

Clyde in uniform:

Clyde worked for Borden’s delivering milk and ice cream to schools and stores until his retirement. He worked hard to support his family. He kept in contact with many of his army buddies through the years. The “Tigers” had reunions with Clyde trying to attend the ones close to home. The last one he attended was in 1987 in Cincinnati, OH.

Clyde in the field:
A more quiet moment with Clyde overlooking the Alps:

I remember Bertha Marrs, Bill’s mother, talking about going to Virginia during the War. She was still in high school, but would go down with her father and mother while he did work in the “Navy Yards.” Many of the American people who were not eligible to fight in the war found other ways to do their part to help.

Bertha Marrs - high school picture:

Mom also talked about her and some of my aunts going to Ypsilanti, Michigan and working as a “Rosie the Riveter.” She worked on B 24’s. She said they never saw a finished plane because of high security. They would catch the train ion Logan and head north to MI! Imagine – my mother was a real “Rosie the Riveter!”

Rosie the Riveter - Mom! She knew how to wrap her hair even before she went to MI!

Dad was a Corporal assigned to the “D” Battery of the 195th Anti-Aircraft Artillery Automatic Weapon Battalion. He was inducted on September 30, 1942 and was discharged on February 7, 1946. He reported to Fort Eustis, VA for basic training and then went on to Camp Haan, CA for training on half-tracks equipped with anti-aircraft guns in the Mohave Desert.

Dad and a little buddy at Camp Haan.
A proud soldier in camp - Dad:
Dad began his voyage across the Atlantic on New Year’s Day 1944. His unit was attached to the 2nd Armored Division for the long planned invasion of Europe. June 6 was marked as D-Day, and it was the day Dad and his unit was initially scheduled to hit the beach. History tells us of the atrocities that occurred that day. Dad was almost had an active part of that day’s event. We, as his family, had no idea of that until the 50th anniversary of D-Day. He told us his ship had been schedule to be on that first wave to land, but for reasons unknown to me, his ship was not where it was suppose to be causing them not to land until June 12 – six days after D-Day and a part of the 10th wave to land on the beach! He said the worst of the fighting was over and he and his unit pushed onward into France’s interior, then they went on to Belgium, Holland, and finally Germany.

Dad and a couple of his buddies in the trenches - Dad's in the middle:

It was as the unit was pushing towards the Roer River around Freialdenhoven, Germany that Dad’s time overseas was about to come to an end. It was a Sunday and the date was November 26, 1944. The half-track he was on hit a landmine wounding him with shrapnel and requiring minimal medical attention. He went back to his unit, boarded another half-track, and was wounded again that same day. This time his wounds were more severe; he lost part of his left foot, had shrapnel lodged in his right arm and right heel, and had a broken left arm and leg. Needless to say, he was about to begin a long trip home. His road to recovery had him in the hospital in England for three months and ended with him being in Walter Reed Hospital for a year where he was fitted with an artificial left leg and a special shoe for his right foot. (I was able to give accurate details not from memory but from an article written about Dad receiving his medals after being hit 57 years earlier.)

Dad never let his wounds stop him from doing what he wanted or needed to do to support his family.
Dad is the one on the right! They are on the grounds of Walter Reed Hospital.

Dad also was able to attend some of the reunions for his group who had the nickname of “Hell on Wheels.” Dink and Rhonda took him and Mom to several of these reunions. They went to Hershey, PA, and Gatlinburg, TN. One of his army buddies and his wife came to Mom and Dad’s 50th anniversary which was held at the house. He corresponded and called several of them through the years.

Dad is the "best looking" one in the picture! :) (2nd from the right)

Clyde and Dad were not the only ones to be in the service. Mom had a brother and brother-in-law who served. Dad had a sister (Aunt Oma) who had seven sons in the service at the same time. They all weren’t serving during WWII, but the years that followed saw the US involved in the Korean and Vietnam Wars. Even the years following those wars caused concern as to whether we would become involved in another world war! David’s other grandfather was also in WWII. He was in the Navy and lives in Huntington today. Bill's father had a nephew, Ray, who was in the service at the same time he was. They actually made a connection while overseas.


Clyde and Ray in Europe:
Through the years we have had many family members, friends, and former students who have served their country to help preserve our freedoms. To all of them we say thank you!!!

Sadly, as the years have come and gone, so have the soldiers of WWII. To Bill and myself, our fathers are two of America’s true heroes. We miss them and love them very much!
Bill's father - Clyde A. Hardin:


My father - Elmer J. Layne:


Friday, December 5, 2008

An Old Fashioned Christmas in the Making

Friday – December 5, 2006

My Christmas box given to me by Dad and handmade by Dink. Each figure of the nativity was made using different types of wood and then glued to the box. I love my box and it stays out all year long!


An “old fashioned Christmas” is how Bill wants to decorate. We have scoured the stores the last several years looking for the decorations our parents and grandparents used. Bill especially wanted to find enough of the three bells entwined together that blink to hang around the carport and on the front porch. He also wanted to find enough candelabras with eight candles each to place in the windows. We had to find enough orange bulbs, and we were lucky enough to find them at our local Wal-Mart.

Our old fashioned bells:


Christmas is definitely going to be different for our family. We have lost so many family members – they will all be missed; our Christmases will never be the same. We now know how our grandparents and parents generation felt as the years went by with family members leaving this heavenly world for a far better place.

This desire of having an “old fashioned Christmas” may help us bring back some of those good memories. We all will definitely try to help Mom have a great Christmas. It is not about giving her tons of gifts, but letting her know how much we all love her! Because her eyesight is leaving her, we need to come up with something nice but practical. Anything to keep her warm is an idea – that way we can turn the heat down just a little so we can breathe when visiting/ staying with her!

Toby has picked up one of Dad's favorite things to do - snoop to see where his presents were:


An “old fashioned” Christmas brings back so many memories for us both. Jeni’s sister, Ruthie, had a great idea on her blog – she asked her readers to respond as to what traditions and memories you have about Christmases in the past. I responded in that I remember we got socks every year from my grandparents. They had little money, but always wanted us to get a present from them. They would give Mom the money, and she would shop for them. Mom was always practical – no toys – get something we could use and needed. Apparently we always needed socks! Not many kids enjoyed getting socks –where’s the toys???

A view which shows the outside decorations:


We had been brought up to respect, love, and be thankful for what we did receive. Some Christmases were more abundant than others, but we loved them all and were thankful for what we did receive. The real meaning for Christmas was not about receiving gifts! However, when we would open those socks, the looks on Mamaw and Papaw’s faces made us all know how much they loved us and had sacrificed in order to get those socks. Money was sparse, especially for them, but they wanted to give us a present. Those looks are embedded in my mind forever. I really appreciate the sacrifice my parents and grandparents made so that my three brothers and me could have an “old fashioned” Christmas. We all would run and hug them and tell them how wonderful the gifts were. It didn’t matter that there was an erector set, a race car set, a new doll, or a craft set under the tree that we were dying to get to and play with – first things first! We only received one toy, apples and oranges in the stockings, and maybe a quarter or two! Wow – we felt rich and thankful. We were rich for that one day. But we were rich with love throughout the entire year!

It was never until I returned to school that I found out that what I received for Christmas was nothing compared to some of my classmates. They would always come in bragging about what they had gotten and then wanted to know what I had gotten. “OH,” was always the response from them. It appeared that the meaning of Christmas to them was who received the most and the best presents! It wasn’t until later that I realized the difference in their Christmas and ours – ours was filled with LOVE and was not about how many gifts and how much they cost. Our gifts were given in love, and for that, I will always be grateful.

Bill’s Christmases were similar. They would go to Granny’s and have Christmas with his grandparents. They received a toy, clothes, and fruit just as we did. One of his great-aunts was a high school librarian, Aunt Daisy. She would make sure they had something to read. This may have been the beginning as to why Bill loves to read!

Our angel high on the tree:


I also remember other things about Christmas – Mom and I would make Christmas candy and Orange Cakes as gifts. Mom did this by herself until I was old enough to really help. I look back now and remember the smells of the kitchen and what a good time we had. Dad would always come in to “sample” what we had made! This always drove Mom crazy! What fond memories we both have of Christmases past.

Even though we have loved ones not here, we will carry on for the rest of the family. We have a granddaughter who will be with us next Christmas. I’m sure a tradition will be started just for her!! David always came to our house by 10:00 Christmas day. He would celebrate Christmas with his grandparents, aunt, and mother on Christmas Eve after attending Christmas Eve services and celebrating his grandfather’s birthday. Then early the next morning, he and his mother would have Christmas together. He was always an excited little boy – wow – three sets of Christmas presents. Here was a kid’s dream that came to life and was enjoyed by all. It took him a few years before he realized that he needed to give us all a different Christmas list! That way he didn’t have any duplicates! Even with all the presents and Christmases he celebrated – he never forgot the reason for this Christmas season. None of us have! “Joy to the World, the Lord has Come!”

Mine and Bill’s first Christmas tree together was also “old fashioned” in that we found bubble lights. Oh what a beautiful tree they make. After Bill’s grandmother and father passed away, we had his mother come to our home. She loved going into the living room, laying on the couch, and watching the lights. I’m sure it brought back many memories for her. After having these lights for 20 years, we find it difficult to find replacement bulbs. When we put the tree up, it will have some old fashioned aspects as well as a few updated decorations.
Here are the bubble lights:



I love decorating for Christmas, listening to the tradition Christmas music, and being with family and friends. I love receiving gifts, but I enjoy giving more. (No Bill, this does not let you off the hook!) Last year I tried to crochet gifts for everyone – for the immediate family they received hats and scarves! This took a lot of time, but I enjoyed doing it. They only ones I didn’t make a set for was Bill and me – maybe that’s what he will get this year for Christmas!!! How about an orange set Bill????

So what does this “old fashioned” Christmas mean – will everyone receive a stocking with an apple, oranges, and a piece of coal? Probably not – but you never know!!!
It means that as a family we will be able to celebrate our savior's birth and shower our family and friends with love!



My geese dressed up as Mr. and Mrs. Santa:


My old fashioned wooden Santa will welcome you:


A view of the house from the driveway showing our bells and candelabras:


A picture of our big wreath in the front with a shot of the moon high in the sky:

Thursday, December 4, 2008

The Real Christmas Story

Luke 2: 1-20

The Birth of Jesus

1In those days Caesar Augustus issued a decree that a census should be taken of the entire Roman world. 2(This was the first census that took place while Quirinius was governor of Syria.) 3And everyone went to his own town to register.

4So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. 5He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. 6While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, 7and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn.
The Shepherds and the Angels

8And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. 9An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10But the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. 11Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ[a] the Lord. 12This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger."

13Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,
14"Glory to God in the highest,
and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests."

15When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, "Let's go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about."

16So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. 17When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, 18and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 19But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. 20The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Three Years Ago Today

Tuesday – December 2, 2008


“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.” II Timothy 4: 7-8


Three years ago today was a cold and dismal day. The family was all together at Mom and Dad’s. They were surrounded by their four children, their daughters-in-law, and some of their grandchildren. Some were not with us at that time due to working and taking care of the great-grandchildren. We knew the time was getting closer for Dad’s time to go to his heavenly home.

We had been vigil in sitting beside his bed since Tuesday night and now it was Friday morning. Mom and the boys were with Dad when he took his last breath. But I wasn’t – and how much I regret that. My sciatic nerve had caused me so much pain the last two weeks that the time had come for me to break down and go to the doctor. I did not want to leave, but I knew I would be of no help to the family if I didn’t get myself back in shape. Bill came in from school to take me to the doctor.

Before we made it to the doctor’s office, Rhonda called the cell phone and wanted to talk to Bill. I handed him the phone, but I knew what the call was about. Dad had gone home.

It was so hard to let him go. Rhonda assured me that Dad would still be at the house so that I could say my good-byes. Dad had left this earthly world to go on to “heaven’s bright shore.” We all knew that Dad would no longer be in the excruciating pain he had endured for many years. He never complained, but we knew from his actions as to how much pain he was experiencing.

One of his main concerns was for Mom. He knew his four children had a spouse that would be a big support to them. He worried about Mom and how she would cope with him leaving. He knew we would take care of her, but still, he worried. Mom and Dad had a talk – one of their last – Tuesday. Dad told Mom he thought it would be best for him to go home. It was almost as if a gentle peace came over him once they had their little talk. He was ready to go home. He was leaving it all in the Lord’s hands as to when he would leave and join his heavenly family. On Friday morning, Dad went peacefully home surrounded by loved ones.

We all miss Dad very much. Family and friends alike continuously tell “Papaw” stories. In a way, this makes us feel as if he is still here with us. He is with us in spirit and always will be! We know he is no longer in pain. A little over four months ago, one of his precious children joined him – John. As a family we all miss them both. Our days are saddened because we miss them so much, but at the same time we know they are together and some day we will be able to be with them again.

There are so many songs that seem to be a comfort to us when we lose a lost one. The one that has helped me a great deal is called “Safely Home.” It is sung by Steve Green. I would like to share the lyrics with you.

“Safely Home”

Children, precious children I Know you're shaken,
A loved one taken.
Oh but hear me.
Come, draw near me.
Their pain is passed now.
They rest at last now, safely home.

They are strong and free.
They are safe with me.

This life is nearly shadow.
Today there's sorrow, but joy tomorrow.
Safely home.
Safely home.

One day you will join them, all together, this time forever, safely home.
Safely home.


A young Dad (Before he was in the army - hair is not parted on the side!):


Dad is in the army now:


Dad and Papaw up at the home place:


Dad loved talking on his "ham" radio (K8LNM):


Dad with his three boys - Mike, Dad, Dink, and John (Dink's wedding day):


Dad and the love of his life at Beech Fork, Christmas, 2004:

Gobble, Gobble - The Winner Is . . . . . . .

Tuesday - December 2, 2008

And the winner is . . .

Here are the answers to the Thanksgiving Trivia questions we posted. There were three brave souls who sent in answers. We have some turkey experts among our readers!
The answers are as follows

1. When was the first Thanksgiving? October, 1621
2. Where did it take place? Plimouth Plantation, Massachusetts
3. What Native American tribe was in attendance with the Pilgrims? Wampanoags
4. What is a male turkey called? tom
5. What is a female turkey called? hen
6 Can wild turkeys fly? yes, 55 mph
7. Which President said that Thanksgiving would fall on the last Thurs of Nov?
Abraham Lincoln (FDR tried to get it move to the fourth Thursday -
making a longer shopping season!)
8. What Indians were there to help the colonist after landing in the New World?
Samoset and Squanto
9. Who was the leader for the Pilgrims?
Gov. William Bradford
10. What is the name of the skin that hangs from a turkey's neck? wattle

Rhonda got eight correct; Kimberly got nine; and Meghan got all ten!! She "goggled" to get the answers. Now the prize is still yet to be determined!!! Thanks for all who took an interest in the posting!!!

After we posted the questions and had the answers ready for "all" that would send them, Bill discovered that we might need to change the first two answers! In all the years we both have been associated with school - either as a student and later as a teacher - the traditional First Thanksgiving was 1621 at the Plimouth Plantation to celebrate their harvest and good fortune in the New World.

Bill received a calendar through the mail that had all kinds of trivia. Looking through the calendar he discovered the following information for the date of December 4: The first official Thanksgiving was at the Berkeley Plantation near what is now Charles City, Virginia, 1619. Bill did some research and sure enough this information is correct. We decided to keep the answers we all grew up thinking were correct. However, next year you might want to remember this tidbit of information. Should we decide to do this again, we would be looking for the most accurate answer! You have been warned! :)